Sunday, September 13, 2009

Stretch Marks

Is it possible to prevent stretch marks? Or, if I do get them, can I make them go away?

The Bump Expert

One of the most dreaded effects of pregnancy is stretch marks. From belly to bottom, stretch marks hit over half of pregnant women. Stretch marks happen because your skin is expanding at such a rapid rate, particularly in the sixth and seventh months. You’re more likely to get stretch marks if you are carrying multiples or a big baby or gained weight especially quickly. Genetics also play a factor -- if your mother or sister got stretch marks, you probably will, too.

Although there are no surefire ways to prevent stretch marks, there are a few measures you can take. No hard evidence supports that lotions and creams work, but moisturizing and staying hydrated are great ways to protect your skin’s elasticity. The good news is, stretch marks should fade considerably in the months after you deliver. If you’re later unhappy with your skin’s appearance, see a dermatologist for treatment options such as prescription creams and laser therapy.

Friday, September 11, 2009

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Thursday, September 10, 2009

Can air bags harm a pregnant driver or passenger?






Expert Answers

The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA) is currently reviewing the effect of air bags on pregnant women, saying only that pregnant women should sit as far back from the air bag as possible. Indeed, all front-seat passengers should move the seat as far back as possible and tilt it slightly. This helps maximize the distance between the driver's chest and the steering wheel. Avoid leaning or reaching forward, and sit back against the seat with as little slack in the belt as possible — this minimizes your forward movement in a crash and lets the air bag operate correctly.

The NHTSA recommends that pregnant women wear their seatbelts with the shoulder portion positioned over the collarbone and the lap portion placed under the abdomen as low as possible on the hips and across the upper thighs — never above or over the abdomen. Until the NHTSA comes out with air bag guidelines for pregnant women, follow these suggestions and make sure you ride only with safe drivers.

Is it safe to use a seat belt during pregnancy?



Expert Answers

Ann Linden, certified nurse-midwife

Absolutely! In fact, it's dangerous not to. Research has repeatedly shown that the best way to protect your growing baby is to protect yourself: Wear a properly positioned safety belt each and every time you're in a car or truck.

To avoid injuring yourself and your baby, though, the seat belt must be properly fastened. The lap belt should be secured below your belly, low and snug on your hipbones. Never wear the belt across or above your belly. During a crash, the sudden jolt from a belt in this position could cause the placenta to tear away from the uterus.

If possible, warm up the inside of your car before heading out in cold weather. That way you can take off heavy winter coats and sweaters, which can cause the seat belt to slide up on your belly.

Always use the shoulder belt, too, which should fit snugly between your breasts. If the shoulder belt cuts across your neck, reposition your seat or the belt so it fits better. Do not place the shoulder belt under your arm or behind your back.

Air bags offer additional protection, so make sure yours are turned on. Air bags do not, however, replace the need to always wear your seat belt. (In fact, an air bag can be dangerous if it opens and you're not securely buckled up.)

When you're driving, adjust the front seat so it's as far away as possible from the steering wheel and dashboard while still allowing you to reach the pedals comfortably.

By the way, if you're in a car accident — even a minor one and you feel just fine — you should see your healthcare provider without delay so she can make sure that both you and your baby are unharmed.

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Wednesday, September 9, 2009

It's a Baby Shower That Lasts All year long!

6 Things to Expect from Labor & Delivery

6 Things to Expect from Labor & Delivery

An article from AmericanBaby.com
By Sarah Lorge Butler

Q: How long does labor last, and will I feel pain the whole time?
A: Much of labor is spent in "early labor". During this phase, it is best to be at home where you can walk, sleep, or snack. During active labor, contractions become regular and painful, and the cervix dilates. Normal dilation during active labor for a first-time mom should progress a minimum of 1 centimeter per hour; with pushing time, that's 6 - 12 hours.

Q: How will I know when to go to the hospital?
A:Ideally, you'll get to the hospital when you're in active labor, not early labor. Look for contractions every 4 - 5 minutes for at least an hour, and they should be getting stronger, longer, and closer together. If you can't talk through them, start looking for the car keys.

Q: Once I'm admitted can I walk around?
A: Most hospitals will let you pace around, but you'll need to check fetal heart rate monitoring every 15 minutes. You may also take a shower to relax or bounce on a birthing ball to ease pain. But, if you have an epidural, you'll be hooked up to an IV and you might be too numb to walk.

Q: Will an epidural slowdown labor?
A: If you're too numb when it's time to push, it can be hard to feel what to do. According to Jonathan Waters, MD, chief of anesthesiology at Magee-Womens Hospital, in Pittsburgh, epidurals slow labor by about 40 minutes, on average. In some cases, the anesthesia can actually speed labor once a mother relaxes through the pain.

Q: Why would I need Pitocin to speed up labor?
A: "Perhaps in the past, Pitocin was used too liberally or too aggressively, but most hospitals have a Pitocin protocol," says Amanda Flicker, MD, an OB-GYN at Lehigh Valley Hospital, in Allentown, Pennsylvania. "They start at a low dose and increase it slowly to get the strength of the contractions to where they need to be. You shouldn't fear it."

Q: What are my pain-relief options besides epidurals?
A: Many women find they can manage their pain by using nonmedical strategies such as Lamaze breathing or the Bradley Method, which emphasizes visualization and a solid understanding of the birth process. Other options include hypnosis and water birth.

Originally published in the August 2009 issue of American Baby magazine.

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The Secret to an Easier Labour


An article from TodaysParent.com
By Teresa Pitman

On TV, the labour routine goes like this: The very pregnant woman arrives at the hospital, breathing her way through each contraction, changes into her revealing tie-in-the-back gown, and is promptly tucked into bed.

But lying in bed is rarely the best way to get through labour. Doula Julia MacNeil, of Mississauga, Ont., is Eastern Canada director for Doulas of North America (DONA) International. She says, "Movement is integral to the progress of labour. The movement of the hips while walking helps to guide the baby into the pelvic opening, and the swaying of the hips encourages the baby into the optimal position for birth."

Midwife Lorna McRae, of Victoria, says, "Moving or walking can be the perfect tool for pain management - it's the way your body helps you get through labour."

A review of the research confirms it: In some studies, when women were encouraged to walk or change position as they chose in labour, they tended to have shorter labours, more efficient contractions, greater comfort and less need for pain medications. Women who spent at least half of active labour walking were less likely to need forceps or vacuum-assisted births or Caesareans. Other studies, generally those where the women were walking or moving for a shorter period of time while in labour, found little or no difference in length of labour, although the women were more comfortable. No studies found any negative effects.

How you move will depend on the stage of labour, your baby's position, and how you are feeling at the time.

Early labour

- Early labour is all about distraction, says MacNeil. Try slow dancing with your partner, or sitting on an exercise ball and watching TV.

- Doula Jalana Grant, of Langley, BC, who is Western Canada director for DONA International, adds: "In early labour, I remind women to rest. Walks are great, but not to the point of exhaustion." If you start labour at night or when you're tired, and contractions are mild, lying on your side in bed can be a good idea - you might even be able to take a nap, or at least get some rest between contractions. A pillow supporting your stomach and one between your knees may help you feel more comfortable.

- Sometimes walking helps get labour under way. Julie Larose's water broke about noon, but she was still not having contractions when she went to the hospital at 8 p.m. "My obstetrician talked about induction, which I was adamant about avoiding if possible. He suggested we wait to see if labour started overnight," she recalls. Larose, who lives near Prescott, Ont., started walking the halls of the hospital, chatting with her husband. Contractions began sporadically. At 11 p.m., her husband went to sleep and she kept walking.

"When I walked, my contractions came more regularly," she says. "After a while, they were strong enough that I had to lean against a wall to cope with them." Later, as she began to feel more tired, she sat down to rest, but found "this slowed the contractions down and, when they did come, it felt extremely painful, so I got right back up and continued standing."

Active labour

When Larose hit active labour, early in the morning, she woke her husband so he could walk with her and provide some support. "I was getting tired and starting to feel like I couldn't go on," she says. With him to lean on during contractions, she was able to keep moving.

You may need to move differently once active labour begins:

- As contractions get stronger, listening to your body will help you find the most comfortable ways of moving.

- If you were resting during early labour, now it's important to get upright, says Grant. "It's important that your cervix dilates, but equally important that the baby's head moves into the pelvis." Walking can be very helpful.

- As contractions get closer together and you have less time to walk around, you might find it easier to stay in one place and rock your hips, or sway from side to side. "It's that hip movement that helps the most," says McRae.

The baby may move lower into your pelvis during this part of labour, or may be shifting position in readiness for the birth. What worked two contractions ago may be highly uncomfortable now - so try some of these positions:

- Put one foot up on a low footstool, bench or step, and lean forward in a lunging position. This may help the baby rotate into position.

- Remember your pliƩs from ballet class? Hold onto the railing or your partner, and bend your knees, going all the way down to a squatting position, if you can do so comfortably.

- Walking up and down stairs is one of the best things you can do to help the baby move into position to be born, according to McRae. "As you go up the stairs, move your hips like you mean it."

Back labour

With a baby in the posterior position (back of baby's head against mother's tailbone), you're likely to feel a lot of pressure and pain in your back during and between contractions.

- Rika Alvo of Toronto found that being in a hands-and-knees position in active labour made her more comfortable with her posterior baby.

"I had a big pile of pillows under my chest, so my weight wasn't just on my hands," she explains. "I would sway my hips in a figure-eight pattern. And my husband rolled a tennis ball around on my lower back with quite a lot of pressure because I was having a lot of back pain."

- Sitting backward on a chair and leaning forward against the back of the chair can also help take some of the pressure off your back.

- Your partner can do a "double hip squeeze" by putting his hands on the back of your hips and squeezing together.

Transition

"By 6 a.m., I was nauseous and shaky," says Larose. She didn't feel up to walking anymore, but found the most comfortable position was sitting up in bed. By 6:30, she was 10 centimetres dilated and ready to begin pushing.

Here are some positions that may help you through transition:

- Sitting on the toilet (perhaps facing the back of the toilet if you are having back labour) can help you relax your pelvic muscles.

- Squatting or sitting supported by your partner can also work well. Some women find they like to lie on one side. Your partner can rock your hips as you are lying there, and this may help you stay relaxed.

Because every labour is different, Grant says that women need to find the "labour rituals" and ways of moving that work for them. She recalls one mother who, when a contraction started, needed to lean forward and rest her head on her husband's chest, while he held her shoulders. At the same time, Grant rubbed the mother's lower back and the mother wrapped her arm around Grant's neck, pulling her close in a headlock position. That's what got her through the contractions.

Julie Larose may have used a simpler approach - just walking and leaning on her husband - but it also got her through a long night of labour. Just a few pushes, and her son, Martin, was in her arms. "He was born sunny side up," says Larose, "so all that walking not only got labour going, but helped me get through back labour."

What to bring

Here are some things to bring to hospital with you to help you move through labour:

- Midwife Lorna McRae reminds mothers to bring comfortable shoes - you may be on your feet for many hours. (She once used maxi-pads to make the hospital-supplied slippers more cushiony for a labouring mother.)

- Your own nightgown or bathrobe from home will allow you to retain some modesty if you're walking in the halls.

- A birthing or exercise ball can help you sit and rock your hips.

- Extra pillows can make a window ledge soft for leaning on, or cradle your face when you're in a hands-and-knees position.

Childproofing checklist: Before your baby arrives


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Whether it's finding a class in infant CPR or choosing a car seat, there's a lot to think about even before your child is born. Where to begin? Use this checklist to make sure you're prepared to welcome a newborn into your home.

For more about child safety, see the complete guide to all our safety articles, FAQs, and other features, including two other safety checklists: Before Your Baby Crawls and Toddlers and Beyond.

AROUND THE HOUSE

Carbon monoxide
Install carbon monoxide (CO) detectors if you use gas or oil heat or have an attached garage, and check the batteries twice a year.
Fire prevention

Install and maintain working smoke detectors; check monthly.
Keep a fire extinguisher on hand.
Plan a fire escape route.
First aid
Assemble a first-aid kit for babies.
Post emergency numbers next to your telephone.
Poison control
Put childproof locks on all cabinets containing poisons, glass, and sharp objects.
Lead paint
If paint is flaking or peeling, have a professional remove or seal it.
Furniture
Cover sharp furniture edges with padding or bumpers.
Rugs
Put nonslip pads under area rugs that don't have nonslip backs.
Water safety
Set your water heater no higher than 120 degrees Fahrenheit (48 degrees Celsius.
Purchase an infant bathtub with contours or other features that make it slip-resistant.


NURSERY

Bassinet
Has sturdy bottom and wide, stable base.
Surfaces are smooth; no sharp protrusions.
Legs lock securely.
Mattress is firm.
Mattress fits snugly.
Avoid soft, fluffy bedding such as pillows, comforters, or sheepskins.
Changing table
Has a safety strap.
Find a place to keep baby wipes and other supplies within your reach but out of your baby's.
Has a carpet or rug below in case of a fall.
Crib
Slats are no more than 2 3/8 inches apart.
Corner posts are 1/16 inch or shorter (or 16 inches or higher if there is a canopy).
Has no decorative cutouts that can entrap baby's head.
Mattress is firm.
Mattress fits snugly (less than two fingers' width between mattress and side).
Avoid soft, fluffy bedding such as pillows, comforters, or sheepskins.
Is positioned away from windows, heaters, lamps, wall decorations, cords, and climbable furniture.
Windows
Install window guards or window stops.
Cut looped window blind cords; use safety tassels and inner cord stops.
Outlets
Install plates that slide closed over outlets.


AWAY FROM HOME

Car
Purchase a car seat intended for infants.
Install it properly, in rear-facing position in middle of back seat.
Keep towels in the car; roll up and use to position baby or wedge under car seat.
Practice removing and reinstalling car seat correctly.
Nice to have:
Window shades to block the sun.

GENERAL SAFETY

First aid
Take an infant CPR class in your home.
See our illustrated guide to choking and CPR

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